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familiar facesfriends from the groups you’re already in

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No app loads this, on purpose. Familiar Faces keeps no Pools of its own: it is a friendship app that reads the groups you already belong to, like the Tuesday walk that leaves from the library steps.

Your people · as Theo sees them

Your people

Theo Lindqvist moved to Port Ellery in August. He’s in ten groups. Here are the four on the library’s Board and at Ferry Room Players, with everyone he already shares one with, group by group, and why each person is here. Nobody is ranked; people sit in the order they joined. The other six are in the app.

The overlap map

Theo LindqvistEmail verified

Your page: theo-lindqvist.carrd.example. These are the groups that list it §3.5.

New in TownThe Board · public · kept by Rosa

Yusra Haddad (she/her)

Vouched for by the curator

You’re both in New in Town

Arrived from Amman last spring for a hospital job. Would like to practice English out loud, and teach a little Arabic back.

  • Through New in Town: yes. Yusra takes messages only from people who share a group, and you do.

Kept by Rosa Delgado-Park Signed in with OAuth · The Board’s own site · the manifest

Chess After CloseThe Board · public · kept by Amos

Resting. Its keeper, Amos, has taken no action since 18 June, so the group went dormant on 16 September §9.1. You nominated Priya to keep it. The vote closes on 5 October; so far you support her and nobody has blocked §9.3.

Amos Whitlock (he/him)

Email verified

You’re both in Chess After Close

Started Chess After Close three winters ago. Moved inland in June and has not been back since.

  • Through Chess After Close: yes. Amos takes messages only from people who share a group, and you do.

Priya Raman (she/her)

Email verified

You’re both in Chess After Close

Nurse on night shifts, so evenings at the library are her mornings. Plays a patient game of chess and speaks Tamil and English.

  • Through Chess After Close: yes. Priya takes messages only from people who share a group, and you do.

Kept by Amos Whitlock Email verified · The Board’s own site · the manifest

Friday SubsFerry Room Players · public · kept by Lena

Kept by Lena Brightwater Signed in with OAuth · Friday Subs on Ferry Room Players · the manifest

In bothFriday Subs and Start a Band, where the lines cross

Mae Castellano (she/they)

Signed in with OAuth

You’re both in Friday Subs and Start a Band

Drummer. Jazz on weeknights, punk on weekends, whatever you need on Friday. Keeps sticks in the car.

  • Through Friday Subs: not this way. This group asks senders to sign in with OAuth, and you’re email verified.
  • Through Start a Band: yes. Mae takes messages only from people who share a group, and you do.

Darío Méndez (he/him)

Signed in with OAuth

You’re both in Friday Subs and Start a Band

Bass player from Veracruz, eleven years in Port Ellery. Subs on short notice. Wants his written English to sound like his spoken English.

  • Through Friday Subs: not this way. This group asks senders to sign in with OAuth, and you’re email verified.
  • Through Start a Band: yes. Darío takes messages only from people who share a group, and you do.

Start a Band: Port ElleryFerry Room Players · public · kept by Ozzie

Ada Quillon (she/her)

Email verified

You’re both in Start a Band

Writes songs on a nylon-string guitar. Wants honest ears on her demos and will return the favor.

  • Through Start a Band: yes. Ada takes messages only from people who share a group, and you do.

Kept by Oswaldo “Ozzie” Reyes Signed in with OAuth · Ferry Room Players’s own site · the manifest

The same map, in rows

Who you share what with

For screen readers, and for anyone who would rather read a list than a drawing. It changes when the map does.

PersonNew in TownChess After CloseFriday SubsStart a BandCan say hello through
Yusra HaddadSharedNoNoNoNew in Town
Amos WhitlockNoSharedNoNoChess After Close
Priya RamanNoSharedNoNoChess After Close
Mae CastellanoNoNoSharedSharedStart a Band
Darío MéndezNoNoSharedSharedStart a Band
Ada QuillonNoNoNoSharedStart a Band

Ask your groups

A question, in plain words

Familiar Faces asks only inside the groups you share, and only people who said yes to those groups can turn up §5.1. It reads what they wrote on their own pages. Nobody else is asked, and nobody is told you asked.

People in your groups whose own pages mention it:

Mae Castellano (she/they)

Signed in with OAuth

You’re both in Friday Subs and Start a Band

Drummer. Jazz on weeknights, punk on weekends, whatever you need on Friday. Keeps sticks in the car.

  • Through Friday Subs: not this way. This group asks senders to sign in with OAuth, and you’re email verified.
  • Through Start a Band: yes. Mae takes messages only from people who share a group, and you do.

Darío Méndez (he/him)

Signed in with OAuth

You’re both in Friday Subs and Start a Band

Bass player from Veracruz, eleven years in Port Ellery. Subs on short notice. Wants his written English to sound like his spoken English.

  • Through Friday Subs: not this way. This group asks senders to sign in with OAuth, and you’re email verified.
  • Through Start a Band: yes. Darío takes messages only from people who share a group, and you do.

Ada Quillon (she/her)

Email verified

You’re both in Start a Band

Writes songs on a nylon-string guitar. Wants honest ears on her demos and will return the favor.

  • Through Start a Band: yes. Ada takes messages only from people who share a group, and you do.

Groups next door

More from the places you already go

Public groups kept by the same two places as yours, the library’s Board and Ferry Room Players. That is the whole rule; we don’t guess what you’d like. Each card shows what the group’s request would say, before anyone sends one.

Tuesday Morning Walkers

The Board · public · manifest

An easy walk around the harbor loop, Tuesdays at eight, leaving from the library steps. Any pace. We stop for herons. This is not a fitness group.

Kept by Maggie O’Rourke Email verified and Rosa Delgado-Park Signed in with OAuth

Anyone can be asked in, and each person says yes for themselves. A request waits 14 days, then lapses §5.2.

Maggie asked you in · waiting for youAnswer Maggie

Seed and Cutting Swap

The Board · public · manifest

Trade seeds, cuttings and advice. The seed library drawer is by the magazines. Bring what grows well here; take what you will plant. No selling.

Kept by June Okafor Email verified and Rosa Delgado-Park Signed in with OAuth

Anyone can be asked in, and each person says yes for themselves. A request waits 14 days, then lapses §5.2.

Conversation Partners, Any Language

The Board · public · manifest

Practice a language out loud with someone who speaks it, and trade back. Meets in study room B or anywhere you both like. Staff meet each person once at the desk and vouch for them before they are listed.

Kept by Rosa Delgado-Park Signed in with OAuth

A keeper meets you before you’re listed, and you still say yes. A request waits 14 days, then lapses §5.2.

Carpool to the Coast

The Board · public · manifest

Shared rides to the coast towns for work, errands and the Saturday market. Split gas, not fares. Say where and when; people with seats say yes.

Kept by Bram de Wit Email verified and Rosa Delgado-Park Signed in with OAuth

Anyone can be asked in, and each person says yes for themselves. A request waits 14 days, then lapses §5.2.

Rosa put your page up · waiting for youAnswer on the Board

Fix-It Friday Volunteers

The Board · public · manifest

Volunteers who fix lamps, toasters, zippers and bike brakes in the library basement on the first Friday of the month. Bring a skill or bring coffee.

Kept by Elena Vasquez Email verified and Rosa Delgado-Park Signed in with OAuth

Anyone can be asked in, and each person says yes for themselves. A request waits 14 days, then lapses §5.2.

Horns and Strings for Records

Ferry Room Players · public · manifest

Horn and string players for local records and shows. Rates are between you and the band. The Pool only makes the introduction.

Kept by Oswaldo “Ozzie” Reyes Signed in with OAuth and Lena Brightwater Signed in with OAuth

Anyone can be asked in, and each person says yes for themselves. A request waits 14 days, then lapses §5.2.

Songwriters’ Demo Swap

Ferry Room Players · public · manifest

Trade rough demos and honest notes. One for one. Links to your own page, never uploads here.

Kept by Oswaldo “Ozzie” Reyes Signed in with OAuth

Anyone can be asked in, and each person says yes for themselves. A request waits 14 days, then lapses §5.2.

Door and Sound Crew

Ferry Room Players · public · manifest

Volunteers who work the door, the merch table and the monitor mix, in exchange for the show. Training on the first Monday.

Kept by Wes Adeyemi Signed in with OAuth and Lena Brightwater Signed in with OAuth

Anyone can be asked in, and each person says yes for themselves. A request waits 14 days, then lapses §5.2.

Kindling has no “join” button of its own: a keeper sends the request, and you say yes §5.2. “Ask to join” writes to the keeper for you. Public friendship groups from other places we read, like the Solo Poly Supper Club at Many Moons or Later-Life Housemates at Hearthhold, are in the full list. We don’t put them in front of you.

What Theo can’t see

Kept out of the friends view, on purpose

For readers of this example

In the world this example is built from, Mae is also on Queer Harbor’s dating list, which is unlisted, and in Many Moons: Harbor Counties, which is public but tagged dating. Ada has a shelf-talker on Second Tide Books’ Singles Shelf, a public dating Pool. None of it appears in Theo’s view, and nothing on his screen hints that anything is missing.

If Theo says yes to the Tuesday walk, Carl Jansen appears as a fellow walker. His place at Late Supper’s Second Chapters, unlisted and for dating, does not.

The rules: Familiar Faces shows only groups Theo is in, or that are public. It never shows unlisted or invite-only groups he isn’t in. It never shows anyone’s dating groups in a friends view. Every group, and the rule applied to it.